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Which way should I choose?
I have a dilemma now. Me and my husband got married August 2023. We just got our DQ today. I estimate that I will have an interview in March 2025. I entered the United States with my visitor visa in July 2024, and the deadline is January 2025. I have been in the U.S for more than 90 days. When I chose to enter the United States, I didn't think I need to do the AOS, But after spending 3##### months with him, I don't want to be separated from him again since we have been in a long-distance relationship for about three years. But I know that this process may be very long, and there will be more difficulties and expenses. I also expect to hold a traditional wedding in my country in May 2025, I'm not sure if I can get a re-entry permit before then. At the same time, if I wait until next August to enter the United States. If I choose to go back for an interview, In order to get a permanent green card, I have to wait a few months,until August 2025 since I get my immigrant visa. I'm in a dilemma now. Which means I have three ways now: 1.Choose to submit the I-485, to adjust my status and stay with my husband, but may have to wait longer and miss my wedding in my country 2.Choose to return to my country and go for an interview in March. Then enter the United States to reunite with him immediately after getting my immigrant visa.So we only need to be apart for about two or three months, But I can only get a temporary green card, and I need to continue a long and unbearable process to renew my temporary green card(it takes about 24 months) with the USCIS after it expired in 2 years. 3.Return to my country and have the interview in March, then hold our wedding, and then wait until August to enter the U.S and reunite with him.This choice should be the most ideal, but I really can't stand the lovesickness of being separated from him for another 7 months. What should I do?Each ways has its advantages and disadvantages, and I don't know how to choose.Please give me some advice! If you were me, how would you choose?