Marcella Mia
Jun 20, 2024
VAWA in progress and my husband requested for reconciliation and he is asking me my current status. I have mentioned that I am on H1B,
will this impact my VAWA? I really don’t believe in him after all what happened and what is still happening to me in this marriage. I am unable to move out of this marriage because of my family pressure and my trauma bonding with him.
I just want to continue on VAWA case and softly reject his sponsoring advise or thought. He has played with my emotions in the past on the name of immigration status.
I am more worried what will happen to my VAWA case since I am living with him under one roof though I have my own rental unit else where. I am giving him benefit of doubt but he is cheating on me and gambling most of the times.
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Mikello MikelloJun 20, 2024
Since you don't trust him, hold on to VAWA until approved. Wishing you all the best✌️
compassion .Jun 20, 2024
@Marcella Mia never change you're case, you will make it more complicated!!! if he asks for reconciliation you can do it but never involve your case
tuff gongJun 20, 2024
Please don't let yourself be played. follow your intuition and hold firm to what your spirit is telling you. Also don't let your family deprive you of your own happiness if you have to cut them off for you to have peace and your freedom don't hesitate to do so.
z zJun 20, 2024
dont let go of Vawa. whether he changes or not, it wont impact you. this is your fool proof safety net. it is not dependent on your spouse. please dont chose your spouse and be dependent on him.
i know its confusing and hard. stick to vawa. dont rely on him or anyone else when you can do it without anyone else
Temi ShalomJun 20, 2024
Don’t let go of your VAWA CASE, an abuser never change they are manipulators
O OJun 20, 2024
I agree, stick to your filing and you do not need to disclose it. It is being sorted.
Good vibes For everJun 20, 2024
@Temi Shalom I agree, they only change for the worst I believe he is manipulating out of curiosity my abuser is master manipulator, in the end you only see the devil. your calling is to break the cycle of trauma. nothing is going to change unless you brake it.
Fay OlaJun 20, 2024
you can have multiple cases at once...he can submit i130 while you quietly keep vawa
Raj MahetaJun 20, 2024
donot tell him anything
Kerry SJun 20, 2024
@Marcella Mia you can still live with your spouse after filing for vawa but it is advisable not to let them find out. That's why you'd have a safe address so notifications don't go there. Who knows what an abuser might do if they find out you're labeling them as such. Don't play his games. You're worth more than that. Play dumb until your vawa is approved and then go. I'd even advise leaving sooner if you can. Only you are going through the hurt..not your family and I don't know what your culture is but your safety and mental health trumps all of that.
