waiting time
Jul 9, 2025
Vawa case
Hey, I wanted to share something personal. I left my husband about 3 years ago. A few months ago, he wanted to reconcile and even went to some anger management and AA classes, but then he stopped. Unfortunately, he started being emotionally abusive again and hit me once. I never withdrew my application because my lawyer advised me not to because what if he doesn’t change . Now I just found out I’m pregnant and I’m worried it might affect my case or be seen as fraud. I do have a lot of evidence of the abuse though. my Vawa has been pending for 31 month now
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It’s possible Jul 9, 2025
@waiting time pregnant for your husband?
Raj MahetaJul 9, 2025
it help prove you have real relesation not need worry
Tom Hank’s HansJul 9, 2025
Doesn’t matter even if you become pregnant bcoz you are already subjected to abuse living with him out of no choice as you had filed VAWA
waiting time Jul 9, 2025
I’m just worried they might question if he’s an abuser why would did I even go back with him again. if I left him 2 years ago! why did I decided to go back again!
GOD HAVE MERCYJul 10, 2025
@waiting time , are you pregnant for him? if yes, congratulations bcos the pregnancy or baby serves as Evidence of Good Faith Marriage. You gat nothing to worry about . Enjoy your life and have your baby. Provided , you are not officially married to another person, you are good
Kerry SJul 11, 2025
@waiting time staying with your husband doesnt disqualify abuse. In fact, I think its more believable as proof of psychological abuse. Many people remain trapped in abusive relationships for years for fear of leaving so dont worry about that. It is also not foolish to want to reconcile your marriage so ignore anyone who tries to make you feel that way. It only shows you legitimately wanted it to work. That said, please leave for your sake and the sake of your child. This man has proven he can't be trusted and will only do things to manipulate you into staying. Next time just go - dont even tell him you're leaving or where you're going. He will absolutely now use that child to get to you.
