Jimmy LO
Nov 26, 2021
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Happy Thanksgiving for everyone, but this othe worst for me. from Labor certificate until now. The long process totally destroyed my health and life! I can not work, can not visit family and right now my family can not support me anymore! The dream to be in USA make me suffer too much! I did not expect this long! I feel sad when I saw other people get green card honestly because I am already exhausted! If they can not process faster, I would be forced to give up!
i know it is bad to compare my case to other people, and I did not want to end up to compete that who wait the longest to make me feel I could keep waiting!
I know if I give up, all time would just be wasted, but my life, health and smile can not be destroyed by USCIS!! i have sacrificed too much. I am alone in Thanksgiving and would be alone in Christmas as well! Current does not mean anything anymore, maybe I need to wait longer than others. who know? only until you get green card!
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M KNov 26, 2021
Hey if you can wait this long, trust me you can wait more. Try expedite they’ll email you & give them evidence bank statement or something
H KNov 26, 2021
happy Thanksgiving to you as well..I have same situation like you...smile has faded away and this waiting time is really messing up life..but I will say have patience...I know everyone gonna say this to you..cos we have to wait...even if we have to do it with smile or tears..we can just wait...and pray..🙏😔
Lu X.Nov 26, 2021
Hi Jimmy! I completely understand your feelings. This process is not easy, not fair, and I would say disrespectful. But my friend… keep your strength, because this journey is for a better future for you and family. Just live each day thinking that “it is one day closer to the end of this process”. I know that it is easy to say and hard do listen, and almost crazy to put in practice, but try get out of this “all day status checking routine”. We are anxious and this routine increase our anxiety. Try to check once or max twice a day, and try to distract yourself: gym, Netflix, hiking, painting… I was getting sick with this waiting, and when it completed 1 year, I put my phone on the silent mode all day, and started to distract myself. 4 days later I received the approval and I was completely offline and only saw the message hours later. As my husband said it is only matter of time, try to keep the peace that everything is okay and it is just time. You and your family will be together soon. Keep strong and happy Thanksgiving.
Car BNov 26, 2021
don't give up hope Jimmy, There is always a solution.
lovely dawnNov 26, 2021
my situation might be worst, three years in United States apply for asylum no interview. apply for 01 no decision since June, my husband is in Africa, my kids has not seen their daddy for three years. am so discouraged am so frustrated , am alone I feel your pains.
Car BNov 26, 2021
the laws on immigration is about to change and processing will also change. please hold on and keep your dream alive.
Jimmy LONov 26, 2021
Thanks for all your encouragement! This mean a lot. I have tried to live a simple life and try to pass through this hard time, but I always had bad situation to worsen my feelings no tried to hold me back. Like a car accident or something! I know it is not the end of the world, but when you tried to keep financial problems down, any incidents would trigger your worry! And you can not tell your friend and family your feelings because you do not make them worry!!
I try to think I would be better and better, I think this is the only thing I can do….
I need to keep doing my stuff until there is no solution anymore!!!
Thanks everyone! I know it is hard to be this kind of sick patience, but I would try to live with it☹️
Car BNov 26, 2021
@Jimmy LO, we are here to support/and encourage each other. keep the faith/hope move forward, know that we pray for you to get well and move pasted this period in your life. you will find a solution.
kay kayNov 26, 2021
i feel u trust me i do
