beauty B
Feb 3, 2024
I'm so confused as I'm writing this,
I met my fiance in a Europe couple of years ago our plan was for me to move to Europe I stayed 9 months he asked me to get pregnant I did I came back to the US to give birth then he flipped sides saying he wanted me to stay here and filer for his paper so he can come to the USA I didn't have any second thought because we have a child together so I did file for the k1 and I got the visa and everything he moved to the USA we went and get married I filed for his social then file for the I-485+ the working permit once I finished he completely changes he started to spend the night outside we start to argue at the lot he even moves out of the house stay a whole month without reaching out to see if our child is ok I just heard things like he is with another woman he even went on social media saying he is single then out of blue he called me and saying he sorry he wanna come home he came couple days later his work permit came that's was in Nov 22nd, 2023 it's been 3 moths he didn't have any job no helping in the house I mean we live in the same house but we don't speak to each other we don't even sleep in the same room the only thing he keep asking why the green card is taking so long to come I should call uscis and ask them I'm so fed up I got this feeling his back for the green card I'm stock I don't know if I should continue or leave it he already clairely show me that's he is here for the paper by the way he is acting towards me. I dontnknow what to do anymore all I know he is not his for me or his son but I-485 he been here since Juin 2023
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Joy girlFeb 3, 2024
He used you for green card. He's a selfish fella.
Great GodFeb 3, 2024
he was never interested in you from the beginning, just there for the papers the best thing you can do is let him go, you deserve better ❤️
god bless ❤️Feb 3, 2024
wow that is ruff sorry you have to go through that.
beauty BFeb 3, 2024
the green card has not been approved yet it's only the work permit that got approved in Nov
Queen AFeb 3, 2024
gather proof of all the abuse, go to the police and let them know if he is threatening you or emotionally abuse you. Same thing about leaving the house. Then take all proof to the USCIS and tell them he is using you for a GC and not being responsible for you family. He will get deported with no chance of getting any immigration benefit from the US and a red flag will be added internationally that will make it very difficult for him to get any immigration benefits in other nations. You are the American Citizen, you have the power, he is an immigrant who must show he's worthy for a GC: Must have great morals (no cheating, no polygamy, no abuse or doing things outside the law), not become a public liability for your state and country, meaning not become a public charge and if he lied in his GC paperwork can get a high fine and years in jail for fraud. Try to get a lawyer so you can get good help and set yourself free from this situation and make him honor his responsibility as a father. Good luck! 💕
beauty BFeb 3, 2024
thank you
tas smithFeb 3, 2024
@beauty B if you already doing it all by yourself what you need him for hun don't let no one use you like that the longer you let him stay with you the longer your cutting yourself short don't become a green card momma run
beauty BFeb 3, 2024
you right you are so right
Hope pFeb 3, 2024
seems like he wanted to come to US and thats about it! people like him should be shown mirror of their doings and hurting you and ur son emotionally. you deserve better girl
Steph RomanoFeb 3, 2024
👉🏻WITHDRAW PETITON NOW👈🏻
I am very sorry you have been mistreated and used this way, he sounds like a very selfish husband and even worse father. If he is already not helping you, you got nothing to lose, his green card hasn’t been approved yet so… you are his petitioner, withdraw his petition!!!! Withdrawing an I-130 petition before approval is as simple as writing a letter to request the withdrawal. If you have not yet received approval from USCIS for your Form I-130, you can easily withdraw the petition. I would not think twice if I was you . He is a coward and abusive person who thinks he can comes and goes as he pleases because he knows he needs you to get what he wants, be strong and show him you are better and deserve better. File for divorce, file for child support and send him back so he can learn when he plays stupid games , he will win stupid prizes. Be strong and love yourself and kid FIRST and always, I wish you all strength and luck♥️
beauty BFeb 3, 2024
thank you so so much I’m feeling better after reading you all comments I was so depressing thinking it’s my fault I’m not even talking to my family because of him they told me the same thing you guys are saying
tas smithFeb 4, 2024
@beauty B darling your not the only woman find themselves in these types of situations and even blame themselves but you my dear should and must take a stand once you start that journey that's when you start to shine again hey don't you want to glow again time to take it all with a smile and end it all power to you lady
Tiny @large91Feb 4, 2024
withdraw the petition and file for an order of protection!! Women are dying at the hands of men who feel they have nothing to lose. please protect you and your child from this crazy person.
Lag NgApr 4, 2024
Well i am so sorry to hear about your husband not everyone is like him. I wish i could advise you but i cant but i know You wil figure it out by your self. Don't let anyone push you to doing something rational Just hanging in there i know Kama is a Bitch. Everything thing will take it shape in due time.
