Jenn O
Aug 31, 2024
Divorcing with temporary GC
Hello everyone! I have an abusive husband. we are married for 3.5 years and I have temporary green card that expires February 2025. This marriage is real but after marriage lot of things changed. he smokes smokes and drinks says very weird things last week he said “ god attacking me and my family I’ll rip holy books “ and tried to rip. everyday different weird incident I don’t feel safe and I am tired. he is playing with my mind but I don’t have legit proof I can’t record a voice that’s not legal. CAN I STILL DIVORCE ANS GET MY PERMANENT GREENCARD ?
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Mae DAug 31, 2024
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Paquita RomeroAug 31, 2024
i read you can to obtain your GC by b vawa is for spouse is abusive i think you can to be free this man is not being good husband for you smokings and drinking. you must to search that in your comunity there is lawyer or asociation can you help help
My PAug 31, 2024
@Jenn O First know that this community supports you. The most important you have to be safe. As others have said you can file solo. Make sure you document the abuse that can help your case. Good luck!
B GAug 31, 2024
is going back to your original country not an option?
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Alex AAug 31, 2024
If the marriage is ‘real’ as you are saying then I think you should do your best to help the gentleman… it sounds like he’s having a mental health issue… a trip to a mental health specialist might do him a lot of good… I wish you well and hope you get the help you and your husband need.
Jenn OAug 31, 2024
@unknown instead of being wrong way ? he kicked me out from the home in the middle of the winter I stayed out WHEN I DON’T HAVE A GREENCARD. I couldn’t go back my country he took my all my money away I was in the street 2 days with 35$ on my pocket with my little backpack. his mom walked out of me with knife his dad was threatening me when my husband not around his brother called me threatened me what the f are you talking about ? I got my card almost 2 years ago o could’ve gone waaaaay before today. I am trying to stay help him but yesterday he told me that I am such a bad woman didn’t call his parents that keep threatening me my life so he wants to empty this house I should find place to stay 2-3 months and he will find another house we can get back together ? am I the bad one here ? I was getting expensive paying jobs he sabotaged. I was getting drivers license he was fighting with workers in dvm so they can fail me regarding the bad attitude? am I the bad guy here ? am I using ??? he is manipulating me and I am point that enough. he confessed just an hour ago and said he did all these on purpose so I need him to drive me I can’t go anywhere else if he doesn’t want to. if you still think I am the bad guy I hope you marry someone like this blinded by the love go to streets get a life threatening and remember me !
Jenn OAug 31, 2024
@B G I don’t think so. I have nothing left over there 😭 and he knows this…
Jenn OAug 31, 2024
@alex A marriage is real I took him to doctor and he says his doctor said “ I am such a bad woman and he needs to divorce me “ I don’t think any medical school ethics tells doctors tell people “ what to do “ this is another lie. I think his family tells him divorce her which is okay for me because I am very tired of having life threatening from them directly or indirectly. might as well let’s divorce don’t sign my gc condition removal. but they don’t accept this too. so I am losing my own mental health to be honest
Jenn OAug 31, 2024
@My P how I can document the abouse ? I only can record a voice but this is not legal. he doesn’t hit me he talks he throws stuffs at me but I can’t record camera I know he will break my phone too.
Jenn OAug 31, 2024
@Paquita Romero he smokes and drinks at the same time I am begging him not to do it but he does it any way then he comes home and he says “ I am the chosen one you are so luck you are the wife of chosen one’s by gods “ tell me how I should not scare ? these are happening under anti depressants by the way. under doctor control. imagine if he is not using medicine… he thinks he is chosen…
Jenn OAug 31, 2024
@Mae D is there any real example around you ?
Verah AnsSep 1, 2024
people don’t know what really happens in other people relationships. you don’t have to explain yourself for them. you know what you have been through! If you are fine about the veracity of your marriage, save and collect all the evidence you have about it. you can file it by yourself. I know may people that couldn’t save their marriage and applied without them. take care of yourself! this is the most important thing!
Verah AnsSep 1, 2024
just read the rest of your statements. He really has a mental problem. Also, he would never take this type of medication and drink alcohol. this is probably why he’s so crazy. I feel bad for you situation, and I understand that reflects on your mental health. seek help!
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Gods time is the bestSep 1, 2024
@Jenn O I totally understand you because I am going through this and even worse,just collect some evidence and remove your condition on your own,it can be so draining plus mental illness

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