castro LG
Jun 14, 2024
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goodnight ! I just want to say that I don't know if it's good to be in this group, I suffer from anxiety, and I think seeing all these approvals makes me more anxious and scared!! On August 27th my case turns 3 years old!! I hope everything works out for all of us soon.
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God loves you! ;)Jun 14, 2024
I do understand, and I recommend that you change your perspective. Instead of stressing out or getting anxious about reading that other people have been approved, rejoice and be happy. Your time, my time will come. Every time I log in, I tell myself, โlet's see how many people got approved,โ and that makes me happy. Don't stress for something is out of your power.
Ricky JoseJun 14, 2024
When I read this kind of posts where waiting time is crossing 3 years to just get the approval and the. wait for I485 . then I thought I have a gf and she is very nice with me and offer me that she can apply for me to get the GC . this is so much confusion
Guiber SonJun 14, 2024
Stay positive your decision can come anytime. wishing you a good luck. i know it is difficult but all we have to wait. i am waiting for my work permit since dec 2023 and i am seeing people are getting approvals in few weeks.
Margaret walkerJun 14, 2024
I will only advice you to believe in yourself. Remind God about your case and leave the group for a while. I filed in Jan 2021, I didn't hear anything from uscis so I filed my 485 & 765 Jan 2022. after losing hope, Jan 2023 my 765 was approved and got my work authorization. Jan 2024 request for evidence, I didn't respond until April. may I got approved for 360 and was thinking of filing for my son, it got a letter that fees was waive for him. so I still consider myself lucky. Don't lose hope I felt like this until I stop reading others stories .
Mrkvica M.Jun 14, 2024
sorry to hear that. This group gives so much suport and talking to other people here helps me with anxiety. Other people who are not immigrants, don't understand our problems and it's hard to talk to them, that's why I feel relaxed when talking to somone here because we are going thru the same thing
idk ๐ ๐ฅฑJun 14, 2024
you turn is coming! just donโt over check the group try to keep yourself busy
castro LGJun 14, 2024
Thank you guys for the messages, I will try to control my anxiety, and may God bless us all.
Hope HopeJun 14, 2024
@castro LG ; I am same feeling, last week by seeing couple of people got their approval, I lost my hope and lots of negative energy came to me . I saw people who applied many months later than me got their approval, mine still nothing.
castro LGJun 14, 2024
It's frustrating, don't get me wrong, I'm happy for everyone who got approval, but what makes me distressed is that they don't follow the normal day of the month, they approve it randomly, which is worse for my anxiety ๐ฌ๐คฃ๐ฅ
Tom BomJun 14, 2024
I do understand.
Since 2021, I have been going through a difficult and painful about this process, made even harder by the loss of my father. It has been a time of great struggle and challenge, but I strive to keep my faith and hope that this process is nearing its end. Every day, I ask God to guide me on the right path. And when I sometimes feel weak and doubt my faith, I ask for forgiveness and the strength to keep believing. stay strong good news itโs coming. ๐๐ผ
Kerry SJun 14, 2024
I agree with @Mrkvica M. We are all going through the same or similar thing so it helps having what feels like a support group. @castro LG just change your mindset. Feel anxious in a good way, like you know Christmas is coming and you can't wait to get a gift. Remember it's not the same caseworker on every one's case so some will work faster than others. Also, some situations are more complicated so they take more time. Just try to be patient and don't stress yourself to the point where you get the GC and then you're sick ๐
tired from waitinggJun 14, 2024
if i were you i be happy for others gettin approved at least that what I do for example @Mrkvica M. his case when approved made me so happy after 5 years of waiting think positive get result positive your and my time is coming soon im over 3 years already almost getting 4 but what we can do
Mrkvica M.Jun 14, 2024
@tired from waitingg thank you my friend! I can't say how much this community helped me and how much support I received from everybody! And I know that I can always post here for help or an advice. We are not aware of how strong we are and we will get through this ๐๐ช
Mrkvica M.Jun 14, 2024
@tired from waitingg you've been wsiting patiently and your time is coming! I claim that this year will be your year ๐
Charlaprince princelachar Jun 18, 2024
when youโre here, you are with people that have gone through what you are going through. some are going through it with you.
many people donโt know what immigrants go through. I was driving for Lyft one day, and a lady said I should drop her off without any notice. I passed the spot, because the notice was too short. she cursed me out and asked me to go back to my country. I felt so terrible.
some ladies who were citizens didnโt agree to date me either, feeling that they are doing me a favor.
but, I have passed all these phases and I am happy to be in this group.
When I see approvals, I just get happy, because mine is coming.
I started my journey in 2019, here we are. please donโt loose hope.
