october 22 CT
Nov 8, 2023
Take this process less seriously! Live life!!!
Good morning people, today I am deleting my account on this app and canceling my premium subscription and deleting my Uscis account.Life is to short to live with anxiety and depression because the worst federal agency. 13 months waiting, not RFE, 1st actively reviewd in September 2023 case moving in snail’s speed. But you know what I don’t care anymore, My wife is open to the idea of moving to my home country, that is actually matters. She and me staying together, it doesn’t matter where it would be! So my advice for people with a long wait (thanks to this agency) is live your life, make plans with your partner or petitioner, YOU ARE WORTH IT! even though we are just “cases and numbers “ for this people that don’t treat us with respect, You are worth it to your loved ones. Don’t stress out with this, leave those people alone, eventually we will get an answer in the meantime enjoy life in the fullest! Sorry to come here and vent like that, but I am done with everything, “Your mental health is way more important than any card that this government can give to you” those were words from my therapist and that’s how I will live for now on. Good luck to all of you!
IR-1/CR-1
U.S. citizen filing for a spouse
Total Days: 1303 days
Case
2022-10-07
Today
I-131
495 Days
I-485
1303 Days
I-130
1303 Days
National Benefits Center: I-131, I-485, I-130
Timeline Map
2022-10-07
I-131
I-485
I-130
Submission to USCIS
2024-02-14
I-131
D+495
Decision (Approval or Denial)
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kasim RamanNov 8, 2023
absolutely
what is life that one will live unhappy.
even the USCIS will all die one day
Poplap Praat MosNov 8, 2023
@october 22 CT Thank you for this beautiful message. We are on day 467 and the process has brought a lot of tears, anxiety, stress and arguments. Your advice has shed a new light that we will follow. I wish you and your loved ones the best!
Mr wonderfulNov 8, 2023
just be patient ! i wait 2565 days (07years) to get an approval ! just be patient ! maybe GOD is preventing you from an accident or something else! some people have been waiting for a long time but got approved ! relay on GOD and he will do it
Rossemverth MorningstarNov 8, 2023
Well, I advise you not to delete your account. Indeed, it doesn't matter if you are there or your wife is in your home country since the most important aspect is to be together. Nevertheless, she may go to live with you in your home country while the USCIS carry on with your process. So, I consider that it's not necessary to do that.
If your wife may go to your home country it's awesome. However, you should continue with your process while your process is done, also with the advantage of being together while you are waiting.
Temika ByrneNov 8, 2023
And I don't blame you one bit the amount of stress and frustration ppl face daily it's gonna break the strongest . I had taughts of giving up myself only so much one can take mentally I deleted all these accounts time and time again and said am done then I downloaded again .But I really relate to everything your saying and I hope you get an approval soon by god's grace . I try to live and don't really pay attention to it but at the end of the day we are all human beings .It's hard to live life for years with the huge burden and suffering mentality because our future is in someone's hand and we have to wait patiently on a decision over our life that is very traumatic that will make any sane human go insane .
Joshua 1:3🙏 ChildNov 8, 2023
I love the therapist words."your mental health is way more important than any card that this government can give to you."
Temika ByrneNov 8, 2023
And I do second that don't delete the uscis online account keep that many times I wanted to delete it but I didn't .I actually deleted this app but the online account keep it just don't sign into it for a while .
w s 🇨🇦🇺🇸Nov 8, 2023
and with this mental release, I am positive you will receive an answer soon! good luck and enjoy the peace of mind knowing that at the end of the day, everything is going to be ok :)
Lua A. Nov 8, 2023
@october 22 CT my fellow from CT I hear you. My psychologist actually tells me the same. We are breaking down in anxiety, fear, depression not knowing what’s next, what to expect but this a good reminder that sometimes we are forgetting that life is way more than that. Please live free. I wish you all the best, always! at the end of everything we are just numbers anyways. Choosing not to be is very brave of you. For everyone reading, LIVE your life.
God's child Nov 8, 2023
look I felt this way last week I wanted to just give up because I haven’t been able to secure a good job I have a business and I cannot get loans nothing to expand because I can’t prove residency it’s crashing. we have been waiting since December 2021 all I can say is ignore it all and do something else to keep your mind occupied, if the truth was to be spoken it would cause an offense because really and truly some of us have goals and it’s being hindered but I’m sure there is a god that sits high and nothing last forever. I was feeling this same way and I said to myself this is what the devil wants with uscis saying they are short staff it makes no sense because I see ppl t that applied in 2023 getting through before ppl who applied 2021 or 2022 that’s not short staff
Tiana KesslerNov 8, 2023
did u try to expedite process or contact your state representative? my husband contact them all the time thats why they are here. if u really want to speed up process you can even sue them that would really make them look your way. either way whatever you decide good luck im just giving you ideas and suggestions on speeding up process
Cristina BHNov 9, 2023
thank you. I been waiting for replacement for 10 months now. it’s been actively being processed.
wisnel gerome Nov 29, 2023
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wisnel gerome Nov 29, 2023
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wisnel gerome Nov 29, 2023
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