sara c
Oct 28, 2024
Still Waiting…💙
Let me just start saying that every time I see someone sharing their news in this App, I start tearing from happiness for others. Knowing that I am not the only one going through this tough process, madness, a battle that I have been having with myself to learn how to be patient, not knowing when your day will come, it is a devastating feeling. Having to wake up every day with the hope maybe today it’s my day, it has killed my happiness somewhow. I am happy though because I Wake up Everyday, and I am hopeful. HOPE is still in me and I see hope is in all of you. You are so blessed. Some people live miserable and we are here thriving waiting to be united with our loved ones. We are so lucky.
Sometimes the hope gets in the way so much, I start dreaming things that feel so real.
From the moment when I finally receive the Approval, to the moment he gets his Visa and I am waiting for him at the Airport , filming every moment. Me waiting for him at the airport to give him the most felt hug, kiss…
From the Airport we are Ubering back to our apartment that I set up before him moving here. Everything it’s in its place, looks beautiful, our bed is made perfectly, I have left space for him to put his clothes, I have bought everything he needs when he wakes up.
Oh, I have cooked for him all day long so the food is warm and delicious for him when he arrives home.
And I know he will feel Numb when he comes the first day, he just started a new life, away from his parents, family, friends… I will have to relive those feelings once again with him. Maybe that will heal my pain, the homesickness I have, reliving a pain that I didn’t know how to manage alone.
I dream all of this, while I see each one of you saying Yayy” I Got Approved” … be patient and believe.😍😭
My case says I have been waiting only 2.6 years but in reality it has been almost 5 years.
When I first arrived in 2020 I got stuck here for almost 2 years due to Covid-19, when I finally could go back and flights were allowed, and I had finally made some money to go back I surprised him… I went in front of his building and every doubt left my body, when I saw him running like crazy down the stairs without his shirt on and a pair of sleeping shorts, I Knew we had to get married. I knew I have to wait for him here.
And here we are after 5 Years still waiting everyday, both of us, with these dreams.
it might have been a hard Journey but if you ask me what would you do differently I would say “Nothing”.
We wouldn’t be what we are if we didn’t go through all of this.
Sorry for taking your time, I just wanted to let you know that waiting sometimes makes things better. Maybe we needed this time to improve and realise that the relationship needed this to become Stronger.♥️
Keep loving and dreaming every little detail, it makes it easier I promise. Close your eyes and Write your story.
Case: F2A
California Center
Permanent Resident
Filled: April 15th, 2022
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Az derOct 28, 2024
🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
Dorcas OYOct 28, 2024
I’m so happy for you.❤️
D DOct 28, 2024
@sara c Keep believing and let me add that dreams do come true
mm nyOct 28, 2024
Congratulations 🎊 👏
Aileen Gonzalez Gutierrez Oct 28, 2024
omg I felt SO related with a part of ur post … I've dreamt about the moment I see my family again and I wake up everyday with the hope that that is gonna be my day .. but I read what you said and I could feel what you might be feeling, I feel grateful that I am here with my husband bc idk what would I do without him, you guys are so strong for going through all of this together, your day will come soon, keeping you on my prayers and all of us that are on the same journey !
Kingsley BOct 28, 2024
@sara c You are a great writer. From the heart ❤️. I hope it all works out for you. Such a long journey for you.
Dama kOct 28, 2024
congratulations
wr wrOct 30, 2024
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭
ⴰⵙⵎⴰ ⴱⵍⵄⵓⵛOct 31, 2024
same story as me waiting for 5 years , same feelings same dreams 🥺
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Ralph PhilippeNov 11, 2024
❤️
Bran MackNov 19, 2024
thx so much. I needed to read this because I’ve been getting discouraged lately. our PD - 10/7/23 and haven’t been approved yet. I’m deeply happy for others and that’s keeping me going but ready to start my journey with my husband
America 💬Nov 20, 2024
sis I don't mean to be negative, but you have to be patient and live your life like you normally would. The best thing to do for yourself and your mental health is to stop thinking about your case. Go out, better your career, build friendships and enjoy every moment!
These things take time and it's mostly based on luck. USCIS is so unpredictable, I've seen ppl get their case approved in 6 weeks, and others take 4-6 years! I hope you get approved soon 👌 best of luck to you! ❤️
Paa KwesiNov 23, 2024
Hi
it's me prrNov 26, 2024
I wish you good luck!!!
erlande mondrunNov 26, 2024
hi someone can help
