see if you can talk him into going.

he is not the one scared I am he is my petitioner and he refuse to go because we had an argument in regards to my son

by that time he’ll calm down. talk to him

I wish

make your son apologize to him for whatever he claims your son did. this will work.

my son is 7 and my son didn't do anything bad from I met this man until now that's 5 years ago he always have a problem with my child

my advice is for you to beg him because if he refuse to show up as the petitioner they might denai your case . beg him if you have to because they need to see him unless it vawa . but for marriage case he most show up that day

if he has friends or part of a religious community...u can ask explore the possibility of them talking to him if everything fails...go to the interview with his own son's birth certificate and explain to the officer that he refused to come

our pastor say she will talk to him and see what she can do

my only advice is to make sure he follow u to that interview. because without him there is no interview. a good lawyer will tell u the same thing

this is actually a form of vawa

Mr boo boo am turning my case over to a lawyer I will let them handle it from here

@ freaky d I think I might have a good case for vawa and my marriage is a 100% real

good , good luck on that .

I agree with Mr Boo boo.

@joyce thanks that the fact once it marriage case your husband most be there with you . even if he go to jail they will tell you guys to come back when his out . that the law .

Where is your interview?

Manhattan

This is wild. if you show up to that interview without him, there’s a high chance they will deny your case. People are just wicked

years ago a guy I know went by himself to the interview, his wife was abusive, and he got arrested on the spot. he was sent to jail and was sentenced to 2 years. I don’t know the law or what his lawyer did, but he didn’t get deported instead they issued him a green card. so don’t show up if he’s not going. look for legal advice from a experience lawyer

if he refuses, try to call or write USCIS and cancel your interview appointment based on your health and that way, you can have time to plan on what next to do. But besides him, any other relationship you might enter again, please try your best to make your son respect that person who will be your husband.

@Victory Victory, you are very correct. From her tune, herself and her child has no respect for the husband. she need to go apologize and plead with him. Madam please drop your pride and do the needful

@Emma do you know her situation???? wowwww

@Emma Georgia, exactly!!! I sensed it from her statement defending her son. And if you keep defending your son whenever he behaves rude on your husband, your son will continue bcuz he’s getting the support for acting rude. I really dislike her response or comments in her writing.

I thought she’s saying her husband is the one who’s being rude

you guys are going to make her delete her post lol

@my case, she said her husband is complaining that her son is always behaving rude to him and she’s saying it’s not true. her argument is that her son respects him and that he’s lying on her son

@Emma George I don't need ur advice r suggestion u dont know the whole story so back d hell off my child is 7 and no grown person should pick on him since he been 2 years of age go away with ur nonsense you too @victory victory

am not deleting shit because am not scared of anyone

people don't ask question just jumping to conclusion my son is not the reason y I write this post so y talking about him being rude and me and him should apologize where were u guys when my husband's 18 year old daughter got in my face arguing with me and wanting to fight me because she was talking bad about our son yall need to stop

@ Emma Georgia, @ my case, now you can see the reality here. we’re having friendly conversation and Venesia has started using insult. Does this not even validate her husband argument against she and her son?

ok why are you getting hostile with me? i was saying that because how they were coming at you THank You dont have to curse at me ,now i really feel bad for your husband having to put up with your shit should of never mentioned your son in the post ,then people wouldnt have come at you we can turn this post into the jerry springer show tonight if you want lol

@ when when, she’s rude! and now we know her character. I wonder how her husband even reached this far with her. He’s really patient minded

am rude to who us rude to me and u guys can continue saying whatever yall want to because none of u know me and ur opinions don't really phase me I thought this was a group qith grown people for support not for bashing and that's what yall here for all 3 of u are a set of bullies

@victory victory noone has a perfect marriage so the time u wondering how my husband reach thus far with me I hope your marriage will co tinting being perfect till your both old and gray because u and ur spouse must be angels

who is a bully? and can you @ people when responding to them and im not a bully im here to support everybody because we all on here are going through the same thing ,you are the one on here with no manners cursing at us .and i was never rude to you i said they are going to make you delete the post because of how they are coming at you how is that being rude?

@all, from her initial statement , I have no doubt the kind of woman she is, madam be humble, drop your pride and arrogance and go apologize to your husband. You are only displaying your character to the public

@ when when if u had the time to read u would gave saw that I said I won't delete my post because am not scared of what the other 2 said but u read and took it the wrong way and jumped on board with them

ok i dint jump on board @vanessa i responded because of how you came at me ,like i said we all are on here to support one another because we all are going through the same thing.

this is what i think you should do ,take your husband and your son out to a dinner ,or chuck e cheese or something so all this can die down until your interview date.because that is going to be your son stepdad .

@when when u still not understanding who my husband is he is very petty if me and him dont speak then he dont speak to my kids also and he is very stubborn I tried talking to him and he curse out infront of my mom who is visiting so there is nothing else I can do

@vanesa, calm down, we are all here to help

@emma no dont tell her that its best for her to take her anger out on here than to hold it in

@vanessa did you try marriage counseling or family counseling?

yes multiple times we did counseling with our pastor he will be good for about a week then he give back to his old ways but he have issues with his mom from his pass I beg him to talk her to settle it and he refuses and it's bothering him so he take his anger out in our home

@venessa, if you people are using a lawyer, inform the lawyer or like I said earlier, call or write USCIS asking for postponement of interview based on health issue and that way, you can have more time to contact a lawyer on what next to do.

I have consultation with a potential lawyer this coming Wednesday she gives me hope so far so my fingers r cross

@ venesa, when is your interview?

2/15

You need to be swift and careful before he withdraws anything so you need to have a plan B

@Vanesa, I wish you the best. I don’t even want to imagine to be in this kind of situation. Contact the lawyer and take it from there. this is very frustrating 😞😞😞

no he won't withdraw that I know for sure

@vanessa just pray for him , his childhood trauma is making him act out .the only way to fix it is to set up counseling for his mother and himself thats all i can say

@ venesa, the time is closer so you should start thinking about calling USCIS right after meeting the lawyer

thank u @my case

yes I was thinking of letting them reschedule

@vanessa do not let uscis reschedule your interview because you are going to be waiting a while for a new date ,just use these couple of days to try to talk to your husband and tell him how serious this is for you .and im sorry but what do you mean by israel interview?

Vanessa, The number one truth is to try and convince your hubby to follow you to the interview. if that’s not successful, make sure you reschedule your interview. some people might tell you otherwise. I sincerely wish you the best. I know that you hate me but I love you sister

I dont mind the wait though @ when when

@all of you judging people based on texts and situations based on two sentences, you need to STFU. This process is stressful for everyone! we’re all in this, and we should be supportive and understanding of people that are going through the same fucked up process. @vanesa, your child definitely comes before your husband, I hope you can work out a way for him to go to the interview with you, and once that is said and done, I hope your husband is able to change and respect you and your child, or that you’re able to get away of what it seems to be an abusive relationship.