hopeful hopeful
May 12, 2022
Observation!!!!
I just have to say this cause I have a lot going through my mind right now, hopefully venting a lil bit will help. Dojt really have a lot of people to talk to. There are so many women who complain that they think they’re being married for papers, which is true, sone people so it with that intention. But there are also women who use this as a leash around their Man’s neck to get their ways. There are sone people who just use it and a weapon to disrupt and terrorize their partners life. There are a lot of people who marry with intentions to really build a family and future together. Please my dear sisters don’t let the hunger of power and control lead you to loosing someone who genuinely love and care for you. If you really think their intentions are not good then, tell him exactly what you think and feel and leave them, but don’t use it as a weapon against your husband. At the end of the day you’re doing it for yourself too cause yu wouldn’t want to be with a man who cannot work, pay the bills and take care of you and build a future with you. And without documentation he cannot do any of that. He cannot be completely where a man should be that is take care of his family. Please, please when God have given you the upper hand, don’t abuse it. Know that God probably made it that way so you can help for you to be helped and taken care of in the future. No condition is permanent and what goes around comes around. For the Men who marry with the sole intention of papers, know that you can hide your real intentions form people but you cannot hide it from God. He knows everything and will reward you accordingly. Sorry if this have rubbed anyone the wrong way. Stay positive and God bless!!!
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hopeful hopefulMay 12, 2022
@only one. I totally feel you!!! knowing that you love and care for someone but also knowing that they are using it to have control over every little thing, when you know your intentions are pure can be really depressing and disruptive. I feel you!!! Believe me I do!!!! Talking out of experience. At the end everything will work out. Good luck!!!
hopeful hopefulMay 12, 2022
thank you @ only one
