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Missy May
Nov 21, 2025
More than 4 months since I replied to the RFE/ Case open since July 2021
This is so stressful that I want to cancel everything. This is ridiculous now. With everything going on with this new administration, we are barely breathing when going out to work because ICE is doing whatever they want. We have children, we have lives and we are humans. What type of treatment is this? We live without actually breathing properly because anytime anything can happen. Jesus help us! #vawa #rfe #greencard #i360 #i485

VAWA

Based on a Violence Against Women Act self-petition

Total Days: 1598 days
Case
2021-07-13
Today
I-485
1598 Days
I-360
1598 Days
Vermont Service Center: I-485, I-360
Timeline Map
2021-07-13
I-485
I-360
Submission to USCIS
2021-11-26
I-485
D+136
Biometrics, i.e. fingerprint and photo
2024-09-19
I-360
Added
D+1164
Expedited Request Approved
2025-06-20
I-360
D+1438
Request for Evidence(RFE) from USCIS
2025-07-18
I-360
D+1466
Response to RFE
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m&m sNov 21, 2025
@Missy May im in distress too. ive been waiting since sept. no updates at all. im tired. hoping for a miracle
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june filter 2023Nov 21, 2025
It's really stressful. I saw you applied for an expedite request, and they approved it in 2024, so shouldn't they approve VAWA? you should talk to lawyer or call uscis or should submit service inquirie
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Missy MayNov 21, 2025
@m&m s @june filter 2023 I’ve called them, I’ve submitted a service inquiry, My lawyer reached out, I’ve reached out to my congressman and they told him that they will reach out to him in 60 days or whatever. I’m just tired!!!!!
m&m sNov 21, 2025
@Missy May what was your rfe abt
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John Lewis Nov 21, 2025
on of my friend waiting for 11 month after sent ref it’s absolutely unfair
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j da SilvaNov 21, 2025
why this community has done for me is help me cope with the agony of the long wait and uncertainty of our lives. please take note that our situation is bad, but there’s some that are even worse, waiting for way longer than we are. let’s keep the faith and focus. stay strong
d kNov 21, 2025
pretty much same here
soon comeNov 21, 2025
same here. I’m fed up
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Missy MayNov 21, 2025
@m&m s proof of abuse. I sent them pictures, police reports, hospital reports… Everything!!!!!
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Missy MayNov 21, 2025
@John Lewis OMG!!!! I can’t even imagine! The fear, the anxiety, the pain… I can’t. I’m so sorry for your friend
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Missy MayNov 21, 2025
@j da Silva I understand but sometimes you don’t even have the strength to look at people’s situation but your own and it can be overwhelming.
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Missy MayNov 21, 2025
@d k @soon come I know it may not be the nicest thing to say but it helps not to feel alone
I eat raw garlicNov 21, 2025
@Missy May i have a theory, they are doing more background check on the documents you have send like the authenticity of the document. based on the document they are decided to approve you case or deny but even for denying they need a strong proof why they are going to deny the case. if you are confident in the documents you have send then you dont have to worry about anything.
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Missy MayNov 21, 2025
@I eat raw garlic Same as people who sent RFE a year ago? some people sent their RFE and get approved within a month.
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Elena V.Nov 21, 2025
7 months after RFE, a year from the interview, anxiety is over the roof
Ayoosh Nov 21, 2025
3.5 years I don’t even have work permit. no social security.
jack jagNov 21, 2025
same here guys
m&m sNov 21, 2025
@Missy May im tired if feel like if its not meant to be it wont happen.
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Question MarkNov 21, 2025
mine since Jan 1st this year
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B ANov 21, 2025
I’m also on 7 months of rfe waiting for response.. I’m so frustrated too
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Love ❤️Nov 21, 2025
rfe medical over 9 months and no updates
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Ju DSNov 22, 2025
my it’s been 9 months no decision yet, they say after 1 year that decision so stressful 😩
Ortiz Mama4d
we need to pray and wait, I know this is so hard for all of us! lest pray one for another one’s, God know what we struggle but don’t lose hope faith our prayers are always listening and we will be there to the end helping other giving them hope that hope that we need right now :( we are in the same boat I’m eating to since 2021 prayers for yall. The peace of the Lord be with yall 🙏🏽♥️🥺
Ortiz Mama4d
I’m wating since 2021 🙏🏽♥️🥺
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Erica costa3d
😪I’m praying for you guys.. pray for me too. God is the one who can help us through this difficult time 🙏🏻
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mar alon3d
@Ju DS when did you apply? when did you send the rfe?
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Ju DS3d
in September 2021 and my medical in march this year
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Ty Qualm2d
@Missy May rfe sent over 6 months ago now also involved congress and I got the same 60 days response too 🥹
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Missy May2d
@Elena V. Still nothing? I’ve you tried to get in contact with them?
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Missy May2d
@Ayoosh Whaaaaattt??? 😱 No way!!! 😢 I’ve you tried to call? Do you have a lawyer ? Did you receive the receipt number? If so try to Contact your congressman to inquire about your case.
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Missy May2d
@jack jag At least you’re not alone… It makes it a bit less difficult
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Missy May2d
@m&m s Yes but it’s the waiting period that is unbearable. Imagine waiting 4+ years to be denied.
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Missy May2d
@Question Mark Your RFE response?
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Missy May2d
@B A I know 🥺 When did you file?
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Elena V.2d
@Missy May yes, of course. As per their response to my SR, the decision will be made sometime in December 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Missy May2d
@Love ❤️ Have you tried to contact them? What was your RFE about?
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Missy May2d
@Ju DS Are you talking about your RFE or your case?
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Missy May2d
@Ortiz Mama Thank you and Amen. Same to you as well. I pray we get approved this year so we can start focusing on the i485 for next year 🥺 this is so stressful.
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Missy May2d
@Erica costa Amen 😢🙏🏾 Yes, He will see us through. We are not criminals just people trying to survive and find a better life for ourselves and our families.
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Missy May2d
@Ty Qualm It’s like they are just giving generic answers at this point.
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Missy May2d
@Elena V. Me too 🥺 and I think they are giving everyone that same answer
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Elena V.2d
@Missy May that’s what it feels like… I just hope and pray all who is waiting will get their approvals soon 🙏
m&m s2d
@Missy May im 5 years 2 months without any updates. only receiving PFs. idk anymore
m&m s2d
@Missy May im really depressed
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Ju DS2d
yes
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B A1d
@missy may I filed May 2021
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Love ❤️1d
@Missy May medical from January and they received it March 5th. Numerous times and they were going to do inquiry. the last update i go after waiting 2 months for an update in September they said i can't get update over the relating to my vawa a representative with a g-28 has to write to them. every body tells u different information. its just stressful.

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