beauty B
19h
it’s possible to file vawa when you have domestic violence ?
ok so my husband and I no longer together been year and we have so much issue because he thought he could come over here have his green card and leave but unfortunately for him he left before the green card he thought they just gonna give to him without me knowing so after he find out that he couldn’t get it without me he came back home try to get an evidence so he can file for vawa unfortunately for him again he call the police and lie that i stabbed him blabla and the police come and find that he was lying he actually beat me up took my phone and forgot that he had my phone with him and try to lie on me saying bunch of stuff that night he ending up going to jail because the police didn’t see any evidence and ask why he took my phone away if I was abused him why provinding from calling for help? so they charge him with 911 faulse reports or something then he shows up for his court day then run so the juge put him on most wanted with 10.000 fine 5 days later the police got him he went back to jails again for 10days and accepted all the charges long story short his immigration case that i filed got redrawn now he got lawyer and he told me his lawyer filed for vawa so now the immigration case went from redrawn to actively reviewing I have all the prouve from the juge I also let immigration know we are not together it’s been 13 months now and we don’t live together but he keep texting me saying that he gonna have his green card through vawa he lawyer guranty him and I’m gonna have problems he is gonna make sure of that. my questions is it’s possible for him to apply for vawa even he is charge with domestic violence plus the most wanted that the juge put him on and what problems I’m gonna have? i didn’t do anything he is the one that was using me for green card now he is mad that his plan didn’t work out now it’s going for vawa and say he is gonna put me in problem and also he file for divorce now he try to stop the divorce but I went and file to stop him from stopping the divorce since past 3 month he keep begging me to get back with me but every time he ask me out or to come to see me he get mad and send me a text like I’m gonna take the kids from you I’m gonna tell immigration that I’m a fraud all those type of thing I’m exhausted what can do or send to immigrants that he is the one that entering the marriage with not good faith ?
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M B18h
JUST BE HONEST TO YOURSELF
Abi Ken18h
Are you a Citizen yourself? if yes you can’t have any problem with immigration at all he’s only saying that to scare you. And if he is the violent one the immigration will run a background check on him and find out all the charges that has been levied against him, I have been abused by my ex wife and I would have let you know how to contact the immigration for your side of the story but I’m not sure if you truly not the abusive one because most people I know are the hostile and abusive ones towards immigrants thinking all we want is green card. No disrespect meant just making sure
usman Dan16h
I have a wife like you.honestly you guys are terrible.my ex did exactly what you are doing and still I got my residency. guys think you can always intimidate someone with green card processing.Donald trump brought his family and wife family to US without stress
tying ..14h
I still cannot believe what I just read. but my Question is why are u here this not for u let the man live in peace and move on with your life because you can't stop him. I can't believe u made a account and write those book we don't care. u should move on with your life and fine yourself a man. @beauty B
Waiting Cat14h
please don't worry, if he's really the abuser the police report he'll submit will show records of arrest and being fined and if he can't prove the case was dismissed (in this case not because he already pled guilty) he won't get a green card through VAWA. Forget about him and put measures in place so you don't fall victim to his abuse again. File a restraining order on him so he can't come near you. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this horrendous abuse. Make sure you sign up for therapy as well so you can over come the PTSD that comes with abuse.
beauty B1h
im very honest and must of you that is here saying all those negative things ya know most of you using citizens just to come over here and my things is when you know there is no way a citizen will use you most of you target someone with paper and come over then leave forgot that your actions will do I been here for 26 years never have any problem until i brought him here my record it’s clean most of that come from other countries it’s all about green card ya know but thank God the police report will never lie neither a judge I’m the one that don’t wanna be with him anymore how many time he beg me to come back if I’m the abuser why begging to come back? in fact he just text me now saying he is sorry for everything he was a friends that give him bad advise but he didn’t know it’s could turn on him if I can forgive him he want his family back @tying .. I can smell the green card you only saying those thing I’m sure you are the type of those who is using people I can smell that and for your information I’m the one that don’t want him and I never stop him I left I’m leaving my life the only reason I’m here is because he won’t leave me alone with I’m tell immigrants I’m gonna do this so that I don’t so I don’t care say what you want it’s my hand I can write book if I want too I know many woman go through what I went to most of ya that get married to us citizens it’s most of the time so ya can come over here and have green card because most the things you see here oh why my green card take so long if you here for the right reasons why worry if you green card take long? you here with your spouse so why worry if the green card take long? I can smell you @tying .. who ever brough you here need to check you out
beauty B1h
@Abi Ken I’m not the abuser if I was I will be the one that is beyond bar you been in this country you know I been with him for 13 years we have 3 kids and we used to live in France that’s his first time being here in America he send me a long apology message and saying that’s was his friend that tell him to do all those so he can have his green card quickly he say he is sorry sometime people come here other will give them bad advise and if you don’t understand this coin you will fall for the bad advise because you are stress you don’t have paper or whatever that can make you legal but one thing they forget you come over here with immigrants visa you don’t have to worry or rush things or seeking advice outside your partner if you know you here for the right reason I feel like those always go through this it’s because the others party is here for the wrong reasons because if you truly here for what you say you here for there is no rush even your green card take 100 years as long you have your family with you and yes I’m a us citizens even though we not together I never tell immigrants before just now and never file for divorce because I know what will do to him not matter what our differences is he still the father of my kids I will never mean bad to him if I was the bad person he will never gonna beg me to come bad never
beauty B1h
@usman Dan you need to read history before come and say no sense you just lucky to have it because you lie on your wife but guess what you think you are safe because you have residency? guess what you need to think hard again it’s people like you that abuse immigration benefits and those is truly for the right reason can’t get a chance because of people like you if you truly loved your wife why don’t you take her to your county and let her have residency there why you come over here? your country is also a place
beauty B1h
@M B very honest to myself very…….
beauty B1h
the sad part is most people who come over here only for the green card I can say 60% but most also here for the right reasons ask yourself why worry when your green card take long to be approved? if you here for your wife or husband why worry why rush for your green card to be approve? if I’m here for my husband I don’t care if my green card take 100 years as long my husband is right here with me I’m good so why the rush?
