sfv vfs
Mar 2, 2022
I got scammed fraud
met this guy of friend of a friend he lives in Dominican Republic talk with him for a whole year and we decided to go to vacation so he decided to come down to the US July 7, 2020 then he decided to stay and he’s like well if I stay I can’t work because to help you out with your kids and pay some bills and a house I need to work I need papers I don’t have any documents a person like me that has no idea what that means I never dealt with this this is brand new to me I don’t know anything about documents or green cards or appointment papers because I’m a US citizen I never dealt with these kinds of issues before so he’s like well I love you I wanna help you with the kids and help with bills and we can have a family because not life we could start everything together so I believed him so he was telling me this process we have to pay for it immigration blah blah blah I said to him OK no problem then finally he started getting his appointment card then he started working he started to change became very cheap telling his friends and family that I’m stopping him for sending money to them to his kids that’s a lie because I was sending money to his kids also then we went for the interview he didn’t even know my birthday my age he didn’t really know basically nothing about me he got the two-year green card thing sorry to change she got a job at PC Richard got a job the garage money became very tight with him he became very cheap everything that he promised he never fulfilled one day I went to his book bag I realize his papers and I realize he open a new bank account but he didn’t use the address that we lived in then he open another account he didn’t use the address that we lived in then he open the bank account in Dominican republic he had approximately $3000 that account he open on October 31, 2021. after that he open the Chase account checking account and a savings account he use his friends address then he open another account he use his uncles address with two jobs we still couldn’t pay the bills I was using my paycheck to pay mostly of the bills and he was just telling me he doesn’t have any money is having when he was hiding and sending money to his family Western Union buying stuff sending money everywhere and I’m just looking at him like where’s all your money you have two jobs he was just lying and lying and lying and one day he decided oh he’s not going to stay here anymore he decided to leave and even though the day he was leaving my video camera showed me that he left and he threw away half of his stuff all the Windsor stuff that he owned here living with me he threw them all in the garbage packed up his suitcase blocked me from his cell phone block me from email change his telephone change his number his family and friends do not speak to me anymore they blocked me basically I was used and scammed he didn’t get the 10 your green card I’m not sure if he still going to get it but he only got the two years I emailed ice I emailed immigration about him I don’t know if that’s going to help basically he lies about me he lied and says I was awful wife I wasn’t cooking and cleaning thank God I have recordings of him he got so point when he realized I have one recording I actually had to use I speak in Spanish so I don’t understand what he was saying he was speaking in different types of tongues that I don’t understand saying like yeah I can’t wait I’m just waiting around she’s calm not so much talking I don’t know if I can stay around for the 10 years a lot of nonsense . I need help
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Fdn Future futureMar 2, 2022
if you really believe he use you for the green card , it’s against the law a lawyer or send letter explain that to immigration.
P p IMar 2, 2022
It’s sad to read your story, I pray you have family and friends to support you through this times, unfortunately I’m not familiar with how such cases like yours are handled, typically the abuse seen on this apps are usually the other way round and from your story he believes you were the abusive one so he’s definitely going to use that to his advantage. You can stay on top of your communication with ICE maybe call rather than email.
BAYANO PARKERMar 2, 2022
@sfv vfs... I'm really sorry for you but what he did to you it's not right and fair at all. People have to understand that KARMA IS BITCH. He got the 2 years that's true but to give him a lesson you should report him. You did what you did because of love but he was using for his sake. I would have told you just to forgive and move on with your life, but you should report him. It is a form of abuse. If you can even go to court. If you simply divorce, it won't changed anything so the thing is report him, write to uscis and then tell them that you are ready to divorce before/after their decision. That's an emotional abuse
Svitlana YehorenkovaMar 2, 2022
so sorry to hear that you went through this bad situation, this person is amorral,played with your feelings, unfortunately lots of ppl coming to US just for visa but it doesn't mean that all are like this, in any case you should report about him,such ppl should be depart
BAYANO PARKERMar 2, 2022
@User 07782... of course he will present his side of story but based on what? does he have any proof? She can prove hers with the video camera and the fact that he changed as soon as he got his conditional. When you are "legally" married, your first home should be where your spouse is. Having multiple addresses make your case looking bad especially with stuff like financial responsibility. She is a citizen and her voice count first.
My CaseMar 2, 2022
I'm wondering how he could get a green card if he didn't know your birthday 🤔
those are the main things immigration focuses on and how he could get away with it? This story has a lot of red flags thou.....
ITCHY PUSSSSMar 2, 2022
ice tip line 1-866-347-2423. and dont worry you just learned a lesson and know for next time if another person comes around but when it comes to removal of conditions for the 2 year please please please please do not go to that interview no matter how much he begs no matter if he is going to say oh im coming back to fix this because i think if you dont show up with him i think they will not issue him a 10 year green card lol i know its just a tv show but this remind me of one episode of 90 day fiance
Stella RobMar 2, 2022
One sided story is dangerous. 🤔🤔🤔
ITCHY PUSSSSMar 2, 2022
@User07782 im glad you were able to read it but my question is when people come on here with these type of stories why sit there and try to attack them like you know them .half of you guys are sitting there and calling the VICTIM a LiAR
Rich EsaMar 2, 2022
you were probably doing alot more harm than he did to you. When these people come to this country to start something for themselves, they have good intentions and that intention can be change based on the way they are treated. They are still a man and a woman and they have choices. every marriage dont work because most people grow apart while others become selfish and fearful. There is two sides to a story. My wife is currently in the immigration process as we speak and if she come here and I ever slip to mistreat her. I will help her to leave my ass. Firstly we are human and should be treated as such. immigration status is bullshit for the most. love is what matters.
Waiting PatientlyMar 2, 2022
This is a very sad but very common story sadly. People like this screw it up for everyone else who are genuinely in love. Its awfully convenient he left the minute he got his card, and if the family you currently live with/trying to build is suffering… why have an hidden account stashing cash instead of helping out. A lot of comments of here are mentioning ‘entitled’ Americans etc but it’s America and it’s the government’s responsibility to protect their own citizens. If you break up the minute u get a 2 year card with a hidden back account… yeah you should be deported. The reason things are so hard for actual couples is because of these types of people. It’s heartbreaking to read stories about couples with 2 kids together, bought a home together, lots of evidence of an actual relationship but their process gets stalled cause this type of man is scamming the system and tying up resources.
BAYANO PARKERMar 2, 2022
@User 07782 I think you don't understand me and you here just to harm or making things more complicated. As you can see everybody act differently and she is the one to have the last word. Do you think we should have just oppressed her in her post and said "she is wrong?" I don't think so. As you said you are free to say whatever and whenever you want, let others do the same and don't come here with your holy spirit trying to approve what the guy did. It's obvious that what he did is insane and it affects others. To come back to my comments about "Married people" you didn't understand me at all. They are married people who have multiple addresses based on their jobs but in an immigration matter, you don't have more than 1 primary address. The address you put first will be your primary one and that's what the IO will take into consideration first before looking at the 2nd one but in here, that's not the case. I'm not sure he changed his address. So you are the one who didn't understand the "address part" when dealing with USCIS. I invite you to go and read again carefully or do some research.
sfv vfsMar 2, 2022
@jimmy jat I understand what you’re saying because you’re a man yes there is two size of each story I am not gonna go on this post and lie about myself or lie about a human being I got scammed I got scammed I’m living at not you he packed up all his shit and he left he got his green card and he left he got his bank account changed and he left he’s sending money Western Union to people he has a Dominican Republic account I found all those proofs. no one is judging anybody I’m just putting my words out there asking for help because I’m not crazy to put my information my thoughts how I feel how I got hurt for anyone to say it’s two sides of the story you’re probably Amanda needs a green card no offense.
sfv vfsMar 2, 2022
@stay hopeful I appreciate your kind words I was reading from the comments on the people wrote . a.k.a. Jimmy. he’s right there’s two side of the story but I will be a fool to violate someone or put information or ask for help if I’m pretending this man open bank accounts change address left after he got his to your green card within 3 or 4 months when he realize I am not going back to immigration office to reapply for the recondition so he could get his 10 years I had recordings in the house his actions lack of affection lack of involvement in the house lack of everything my children left the house because of him. so Jimmy you’re right they’re always two sided of each story his story is she married me because she love me it’s never I married her because I love her it’s always she married me because she love me.
sfv vfsMar 2, 2022
@My case yes we went to the immigration the officer was talking to us the office to ask him what is your wife’s birthday and how old is she he didn’t know anything camera was in his face I’m watching him while she’s talking to him he didn’t even know my birthday oh how old I was or where my family live what high school I went to it’s obvious he was in his relationship with him so not for me because when he talks to me he says she married me it’s not I married her for love she married me basically I have no idea what to do and I don’t know how he got his two-year green card he didn’t even submit documents because he wasn’t even here long enough to get anything to start working to get W-2 form for certain things that a lot of the documents were not submitted cause you have anything and he got history a 2 green card I don’t know what’s going to happen after that. I don’t know much about immigration stuff. and I’m not sure . I don’t know what else is going to happen I don’t know what else is going to do but I know for one thing I am not going back to the immigration office he moved out blocked me from his number he changed his accounts I have no idea where he is .
My CaseMar 2, 2022
@sfv, im so sorry. reading your story gives me chills. sometimes it's best to take our time to know someone before we rush into decisions like this. it's sad, it reminds me of the show 90 days fiance where you see how people are taking advantage of others. Please stand on your decision and don't look back or fall for his “sweet” words when attempt to come back when he needs you. I wish you the best hunn 🫂
kaya koiMar 2, 2022
I'm sorry you are going through this !! this reminds me of Mohammed from the 90 day fiance show on tlc lol he used Danielle to get a green card and she took him to immigration court to get him deported and sadly since their marriage was consummated there was nothing she can do.
Freaky DMar 2, 2022
I am reflecting on this tale with a beer in my hand. I can't offer any advice until I hear from the other party. Stories abound of people who leap out of relationships once they have green cards. But I have also heard and seen multiple cases of people who abuse their partners while helping them get green cards. The truth is often in between. May inner piece be restored to all parties.
Marley WillMar 2, 2022
After reading this I could say that I understand your pain and idk how to help but what I will say is USCIS is firstly gonna think that you guys are fighting and this is your way to get back at him by trying to get him removed. I’m not sure how it’ll go with the evidence that you have but do whatever everyone’s recommending and try and see but I can bet you that they’ll think that is the case first so be very convincing
Freaky DMar 2, 2022
For all I know, and from what I have heard and seen from other people's experiences, the guy in question might be in another platform telling people to help him thank God for his escape from an abusive partner. Again, I posit that the full picture and story can only emerge from hearing from both parties. I read every one-sided story with a grain of salt. It is very easy to demonize people when relationships collapse, and most times the demonized party will not be there to offer their own version. I'll pause here to open my next beer and continue watching TV.
sfv vfsMar 16, 2022
@rich ESA I’m responding to your message I never miss treat this man I gave him shelter food and water love a clean house clean clothes and try to help him get a job go back to school and immigration status I did everything I’m supposed to do it’s not my fault he went behind my back sending money to Western Union for almost 2 years well I can say a year and a half opening secret bank accounts in Dominican Republic opening Chase account and his best friends home address I live in Long Island open another account working overtime and getting a paycheck not telling me watching me buy food pay for rent pay for car insurance pay for medical insurance pay for everything and he’s telling me he has no money he accidentally left his paystub in his wallet I opened it I found everything when I asked him what’s going on he says it’s in my business so the relationship was not perfect was OK it wasn’t great it was OK. but when you start seeing all these clothes you start doubting this was not for love this was just a scam after all of this he says he’s leaving he blocks me from every social media his family stop calling me best friends then he said to them I fucked up his life and yes we are human I try to treat him as a human being he treating me like a piece of shit and second of all the recordings of the house I have all of them you should see and hear how this man was talking about me and my kids.
Rich EsaMar 16, 2022
He is an opportunist. File form I-192 for fraud or willful misrepresentation or call 877-388-3840/eoir.fraud.program@usdoj.gov
