Om Krishnaya Vasudebaya Nama Om
Dec 13, 2023
I cannot make myself down. I have faith one day, I will break all these walls of backlogs and waitings. I am a lion, I step back to make 20 ft jump ahead. Green card is not just a card for me.
It has become a emotion now. Many family expectations and glimpse of happiness. Moved to different state for employer job. I used to make 8k in a month. Now, I make 1200 a month. it’s become a strange journey. Work is stressful. we ain’t make enough money and the time is being running. There won’t be anything complaining about time and money. No matter what, I have to accept it and move on until my pd of June 2021 comes in. Let’s not curse our luck just because we have to wait some more months. Accept the reality and move forward. There will be a day when we all be greened and cry the tears of happiness and satisfaction. No matter how much we get tired but we cannot just quit the race. Pain is temporary but victory is forever. I waited these many months, why not few more. Hope you all guys have power to fight this impatience and strangling moment. God bless us all.
Green card coming soon… 🔜
Your mom won’t like you if you’re sad and being so stressed.. so just smile for her she would love it
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GB BDec 13, 2023
🙏🏻💚
nir rajanDec 13, 2023
🥹🥹well said thank you 🙏
Bernese TDec 13, 2023
i wish you the best of luck. hang in there! 💛
Ashleigh BrandsDec 13, 2023
loved your post
GB BDec 13, 2023
@Lucky boy and remember you have options.. you can keep one day working for the sponsor, and go back to your career as a part time, you can take a break, visit your family. do not struggle yourself!
Lin ODec 13, 2023
This is a beautiful and encouraging post! Thanks for sharing your journey, and giving us some hope.
EB3 SDec 13, 2023
Thansk for the motivation @Lucky boy . I used to make around 7k a month but now I make 1500 a month. My PD is feb 2022, I lost the hope. I am worried thinking that I have to work for sponsor for next 2-3 years😢
m pDec 13, 2023
I have a question for those who had been making more than current unskilled work. @EB3 S and @Lucky boy Did you guys OPT or anykind of work permit expired? or just went to work for other reason? @EB3 S
Young NguyenDec 13, 2023
i do not know who you are, but you have exact same thinking as mine, you have a mom that the same as mine who never want to see her son sad. i feel you because we are on the same boat (a difficult journey and wait untill the happy ending). let’s try our best.
EB-3 Uniskilled skills 1Dec 14, 2023
I have really bad situations in my work, I was about to leave my job which are my sponsors, but I have been fighting for my green card for some many years, my pain is temporary but my victory is forever. thanks for these words and I will keep fighting and waiting until I have my green card in my hands
Nicky CDec 14, 2023
well said Lucky boy. we have to keep pressing forward and don't give up. one day, we will be victorious. it's a hard journey, rough and long journey, but there is hope. let's keep trusting God that he is cutting and clearing the path for us to be green soon. one love
L QDec 14, 2023
I really needed to read this, thank you so much!
Zuki yosidaDec 14, 2023
thanks for kind words. It does lift me up after the whole visa bulletin drama. Stay positive guys !
Lily CDec 14, 2023
Same boat.. PD June 2021. Same thinking.. let’s keep fighting. We are in a better position than many people, who hasn’t any hope or the opportunity to be greened one day.. But it feels good to read posts like yours.. Thank you 🙏🏻
EB3 UNSKILLEDDec 14, 2023
@Lucky boy @Lily C @EB-3 Uniskilled skills 1 @Tanya CB @Ashleigh Brands @Young Nguyen @Barb B one big and the most important questions for all of you guys? WHY did you start to work to your sponsor before get your I-485 approved? WhY? sorry guys but you put yourselves in that situation, I would say 99% of you were doing good money, living in another state, got the EAD and first thing you do is: leaving the school (that is totally fine since you have to keep your status until you submit your I-485) after that you don’t need to study anymore, some cowards say “well I need to keep my status because if my I-485 were denied I can reapply” Really? don’t be fool guys if your I-485 was denied 99% of the time will be because you violated your status then you will be automatically terminated (your F-1 status) then make no sense keep studying after you have your I-485 pending. Then no satisfied you guys take the EAD and think your life’s will change I have heard “Great I can start work to my sponsor now I am so happy” Really? then you take everything and move to another state with your family then when you get there realize you shouldn’t do it. First you have no advantage to do it, Second now when you have started unfortunately you can’t leave (totally different situation if you have your green card in hands) then you realize you didn’t have to start because by the law (work permit) is a permission not obligation. I know will be a lot of people here saying “well if we have an interview”? good question: then you have two options: You will receive a noticed months before then you can prepare to start to work if it is the case or you have the option to don’t start since you have no obligation by the law and your green card won’t be denied because this. For sure it could be if you don’t start to work after your green card is approved. Whne your GC is approved yes go ahead and start working for your sponsor otherwise you are doing a very bad decision for your life specially if your PD is 2021, 2022 even 2023. Don’t make this mistake for those are reading this and still have the chance! And you guys that this mistake sorry but you have to go with your consequences now.
Everyone has a different situation and have to analyze with your family but don’t be foolish, don’t get excited with EAD or AP they don’t change anything in your life and don’t be afraid from your agencies and sponsors they can’t do anything unless to threaten you. good luck for everyone. My PD is 2020 and I have my I-485 pending for 1 and half year I have my work permit and advance parole and I didn’t start to work and I won’t until my GC is approved. Do you know why? because I can do it I am following the law. All others decisions is made in what you think is better for you and your family but don’t be fooled by this agencies nothing will happen. I hope I can open the eyes for those who didn’t fall in this trap yet. Keep your life in the same way you are living now only start to work when you have your GC approved I couldn’t be more clear. Good luck for everyone.
GB BDec 14, 2023
@EB3 UNSKILLED I have been reading yours agressive and frustrated comments here for a long time. First of all, I’d no problems moving to a different state and start to work for my sponsor. our life and routine here is perfectly fine and happy. before started I was able to graduated In two programs and even with my EAD for eb3 I was able to completed my 1 one year opt working on my field. the job for the sponsor is not something that I would to in my normal life of course but besides that we’re having a really great time here and one day it will be over. I don’t see all the negatives points like you. in addition to that, i don’t have any complains about my agency. it’s a business as any other business but they never failed in respond my messages, or to give me advices and I’m super fine with that. the same way that you come here to Bring those information you have to be careful thinking that you know all the facts and truth. no one here is stupid, people here are all growing up adults, and know what they are doing or should do. IF we decided to start to work for the sponsor and complete the one year mark, and now we are here discussing other options about take a break, part time, other job or whatever it IS OKAY! if YOU are going to wait until you get your GC to start your job it is your problem, your decision. DO NOT come here to talk things to me pretending you know what’s better for my life
EB3 UNSKILLEDDec 14, 2023
@Barb B I was expecting this frustrated reaction from people who didn’t read and understand what I said. First my message was directed to those are crying and complain about the situation than they have to work until get approval after they realize it was a good decision, if you are happy my friend good for you but like you said everyone has a different situation and I said that in my message, however you can’t sell to people that you are happy working for your sponsor and everyone will be the same, because what I have seen is the most people regretting and complaining because it wasn’t the best decision and they made that mistake based on threats from their sponsor and they agencies without knowing the law. Do you think it isn’t good for everyone know what they can do and what they can’t do then make a decision based on the knowledge and the law? or do you think everyone should do the same thing you did? That’s great you are doing good but you have to understand the most people come here every day complaining about that because maybe they didn’t know what I said in my first message. Put your feet in others shoes and just give your opinion based on the truth as you said about your situation, it is your reality, my message above is about my reality do you understand we are different? then my intention was purely to open the eyes that everyone can make a better decision for their life’s . What did I say that was lie? Show me please, because even we have examples like you saying you are very happy and the sponsor is great the agency is great I can guarantee you the most people aren’t and they wish to have read a message like mine before make the decision. Again good for you and I wish the best for you, when I tell my opinion or advice for everyone in this same situation I say look “I am doing this and it is working good for me, I am following the law, the law say it, however some people start to work and regret, you don’t have to but I don’t own the truth, this is your choice just analyze what is better for you specially if your pd isn’t 2020. that’s it. I don’t try to sell a dream for anyone else. the reality is the reality and most people have no ideia when they could get their GC and move to another place now to work for years isn’t a better choice and they have to know that. Good luck for everyone and keep your eyes open guys the story has two sides don’t be blind.
GB BDec 14, 2023
@EB3 UNSKILLED what I’m saying is.. one guy came here and wrote and encouragement message because he knows that many people have been working for a long time and now are looking for options after all the retrogression. why are you coming here saying what they shouldn’t have done if it’s already like it is, your message is not gonna Change a thing! everybody on the post are already working and you know that.
EB3 UNSKILLEDDec 14, 2023
@Barb B what should we do ? tell everyone to make the same mistake? you didn’t get my point, yes my message can’t go back and change the past however there is a lot of people that needs to know the reality, you just said people are working a long time and they are looking for options why we should let others people make the same mistakes without knowing the truth and the law that they can make their own decision?! That’s great you are happy but I personally know people that they are literally crying and regretting every day about to start work before the green card approval, do you know what they tell me? “ I wish I knew the law I would never start to work before” that’s my point I want to help those didn’t fall in this trap because example like you “Happy” are very rare and to be honest you are the first person who I saw I know could be more but the point is people needs to know the truth, the reality and the law they make their own decisions then if they make the decision knowing that I don’t believe they still will come here to cry and complain about their situation because they knew. I know some people didn’t know that they could stay where they were and just start to work when they got approved that’s when they have to by the law. it is very clear my point I hope. Good luck 🍀 for everyone.
GB BDec 14, 2023
@EB3 UNSKILLED I can see that even not working you are not happy at all with your life. you should go back to the main message on this post and read back all the comments to see what was the purpose of the @Lucky boy message. your message wasn’t appropriate here. if you are SO FINE with your decision good for you.
Lily CDec 14, 2023
Well, my name was mentioned, so I suppose I’m included in the group of people you said were complaining and crying..?.. I read everything and laughed a lot.. Why do you suppose you know my life and decisions? The only thing I said was: same boat, PD 2021, same POSITIVE thinking 😅… I already wasted time reading your poor words.. I won’t do it again explaining my life to you, just because I don’t want to… Agree 100% with @Barb B .. And I hope your life gets better and you find a different way to spend it, instead of coming here to judge/offend/misread people’s life, etc.. 🙏🏻
Nicky CDec 14, 2023
I was by no means complaining. I was only encouraging us all to keep the faith. I am presently working for my employer that I love and won't leave even after green card, so my name being mentioned here I don't know why. its all good though, I'm not easy or get upset, in try to keep the peace 😉 , one love
happy nuggetDec 15, 2023
i can relate. earning 1/3 of what i used to make…
Tom WambsgansDec 16, 2023
@EB3 UNSKILLED make your words my word 🤝🏻
Ashleigh BrandsDec 16, 2023
@EB3 UNSKILLED Good luck with your 485 if you employer withdrew your 140.
EB3 UNSKILLEDDec 16, 2023
@Ashleigh Brands good point trying to make me a coward like many others however by the law as I am always following here in my comments it says: if you have your I-485 pending for more than 180 days even if your sponsor withdraw your I-140 (like you said and maybe wish because it looks like you made the mistake to start to work before) I have the right to find another employer within 90 days. Then Sir I am safe by the law even the cowards that don’t understand my point here I will be good 😊. I am impressed on how people don’t assume they made a mistake and really want to have others in the same situation to come here and make messages saying: “Stay positive guys everything will be fine” “ keep fighting guys” bla bla bla. The reality there is no advantage to start to work before and you don’t have to. However each person have to decide it by themselves and their family which is better but my point is: You have to know the truth. Look at this forum comment I would say 90% of them are people complaining about their sponsors because they put them on the situation because they didn’t know or they were cowards I just want to open people eyes. You don’t have to start to work, you can but you don’t have. That’s it! I don’t think it is too hard to understand is it?
EB3 UNSKILLEDDec 16, 2023
@USCIS . yea thank you I know there is a lot of people who understand my point.
EB3 UNSKILLEDDec 16, 2023
@Tom Wambsgans thank you I really appreciate your understanding and I wish the reality could be spread across all because everyone that made the mistake or are complaining or are saying they are happy 😃 with their minimum wage job in the middle of nowhere lol.
Tom WambsgansDec 20, 2023
@EB3 UNSKILLED can you text me on telegram? you can find me at @kenroy212. I would like to see if we align on some points
Tom WambsgansDec 20, 2023
@USCIS . what about working on something not related? if you could text me on telegram as well
I only trust in God.. 🙏🙏🙏Dec 21, 2023
@Lucky boy! I read this and I felt relived coz have been waiting for close to 5years not even EAD in my possession but I belive one day it will come to and end...Thanks for your motivation bro
Nelly Penelope Dec 28, 2023
thank you for your words of encouragement.. higly needed !🙏🏽🙏🏽

